About Me

Hello, my name is Jaymie. I am not one of those sappy women whose life goals and ambitions revolve around meeting Mr. Right, getting married, and making babies. But to be honest I have never been particularly good at relationships. The younger version of myself had hoped that I could get it right by now. But, I DIDNT!!!

I remain hopeful and would still like to meet a great guy that thinks the world of me and that I adore. I would still like to find my happily ever after.


I have decided to continue of the roller coaster of dating. I will go on at least one new date a month in an attempt to meet the right guy. If I don’t there will be consequences.

This challenge started in the month of August and will continue until one of two things happens a) I actually meet the right guy b) a string of terrible monthly dates makes me reconsider my stance on relationships and the idea of being the crazy cat lady becomes more appealing. Both possibilities will ensure endless humor.


Thank you for joining me on my adventure.

Monday, December 31, 2012

Date of the Month-December # 3 Friday night dinner


So December really was a busy month.  December # 3 and I met on OKCupid.  We have been emailing and then text for quite a while.  We had plans about a week earlier but I canceled.  He text me and asked about dinner on Friday.  So we made plans to get some sushi. 

Before the date I was talking to a friend on facebook.  I told her about my date later that night and our plans to go get sushi.  Her response made me laugh.  She said that Sushi was very sensuous for a first date.  She said it was because of the textures and how you eat.  I can see where she is coming from but I am not talented enough to eat with chopsticks so I use a fork.  Maybe sushi is not as sensuous when you use a fork.   We talked about other suggestive foods.  I said hot dogs and she added an ice cream cone.  Yeah, those are both very suggestive.  Can you think of any others?

So I arrived at the restaurant after December #3 did.  I quickly spotted him sitting at a table.  We quickly hugged.  He is an attractive black man with a very friendly smile and dimples.  He is well articulated and has a smooth voice that is nice to listen to.  The restaurant had some really interesting names for some of their rolls including Sexy Lady and IDid Your Sister.  There were other funny names but I can’t remember them now.  Well December #3 and I ended up ordering a few different rolls and sharing.  I have never shared on a first date but sushi is easy to share. 

December #3 and I talked about food likes and dislikes.  I admitted to not liking onions.  He put his hand up to give me a high 5.  I wasn’t sure what he was doing at first.  Apparently he agreed with me and does not like onions either.   We also talked about sports, work, family, and we had an interesting conversation about hording.  He complemented me on my storytelling.  I am a pretty animated speaker.  I try.  

December #3 is also 6 foot 4.   Yeah, he is over a foot taller than me.  He has broad shoulders and is athletic but more like a football blockers body type.  He also played football and basketball in school and even played against my high school.  So we know some of the same people. 

We sat inside the restaurant talking for a while after dinner.  The waitress put the check down right in front of me and he grabbed it.  He picked up the check and playfully called me a cheap date.  We talked about other things we could do next.  I thought about my earlier conversation with my friend and almost wanted to suggest going to get ice cream cones.  Except for the fact that it is winter and kind of cold outside. 

We left the restaurant.  He walked me to my car and we hugged goodbye.  He asked about going out again and I suggested next weekend.  He sent me a text later saying that he hoped I made it home safely and that he had a really good time tonight.  I guess the ability to text makes it easier to not wait to communicate. 

3 comments:

  1. I love your date with the ex-football playing Berry white. Not sure why you needed us to know he's articulate, because he's black ? (Oh yeah, I forgot you're a racist). The story started with hints of suggestive or "very sensuous" foods. Nothing sexy happened, It got less sexy when you suggested using a fork to eat sushi. I love you Jaymie don't take this wrong, you're an adventure take all kinda bitch. So I don't know why you didn't melt that chocolate all over for soft vanilla self, add nuts, pop a cherry, and let that banana slit the glorious gate of heaven! HallelujaH!

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    1. Thanks for your comment. If I didnt know who wrote this comment I would/could be almost offended. But just so you and everyone else knows December #3 reminded me of you. You are also such an articulate speaker. Usually. You and December # 3 have the kind of voice that pulls everyone into listening to every syllable you utter. You are also both black and since you know I am not racist I will let that one slide. I am sorry I didnt embrace my inner whore enough for you.

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  2. You're not racist Jaymie, it was just funny to write at the time. We've been friends too long, I know where your heart is. "Embracing your inner whore" is a stretch, you need to step away from the world of under aged children and after school specials your employments forcing you to swallow on a daily basis. Welcome to the world of being an adult, especially an adult Women. It's 2013 an women have the freedom to do what they want, if this blob was title "I sleep with one man a month" would be no where near the activity limit of whoredom. You're single, and no kid. You should be living the life you deserve, not the life you feel others will except. I think you're too modest and it's preventing you from reaching the perks of potential opportunities we both know you're capable of handling.

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