About Me

Hello, my name is Jaymie. I am not one of those sappy women whose life goals and ambitions revolve around meeting Mr. Right, getting married, and making babies. But to be honest I have never been particularly good at relationships. The younger version of myself had hoped that I could get it right by now. But, I DIDNT!!!

I remain hopeful and would still like to meet a great guy that thinks the world of me and that I adore. I would still like to find my happily ever after.


I have decided to continue of the roller coaster of dating. I will go on at least one new date a month in an attempt to meet the right guy. If I don’t there will be consequences.

This challenge started in the month of August and will continue until one of two things happens a) I actually meet the right guy b) a string of terrible monthly dates makes me reconsider my stance on relationships and the idea of being the crazy cat lady becomes more appealing. Both possibilities will ensure endless humor.


Thank you for joining me on my adventure.

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Date of the Month-December #2 Monday night dinner/drinks

I met December # 2 on OkCupid.   I know, Big surprise right!  December # 2 and I had been emailing for months.  I think the first email was in September.   He is originally from Michigan and went to school in Santa Barbara. He moved back and forth a few times but has now been living here for around 2 years.  He is going back to Michigan for Christmas/New years but asked me out and we decided to meet up before the trip. We arranged to meet at the Blue Dog Beer Tavern in Sherman Oaks.  I had never been there before and it is a really cute place.  We quickly hugged but it wasn’t awkward.  He was cuter in person than in a few of his pictures. 

The Blue Dog Beer Tavern has all these fun beers and a lot of them are from California breweries.  The waitress was super fun and friendly.  She told me I look like Patricia Arquette.   I had to google her.  Do I look like her? 




December # 2 was easy to talk to.  We talked about traveling, growing up in Michigan, and our families and friends.  We also talked about sports.  He used to wrestle.  Huhh.  That is an interesting sport.  The uniform itself is just odd to me.   We talked about movies.  He admitted to liking Hangover 2…..not sure why he actually liked it but I wont hold it against him.  We talked about work and doing thing that make a difference in the world and contribute to society. 

After dinner we decided to walk to Starbucks.  He was really good about holding open doors and other chivalrous things.  We held hands briefly and sat at Starbucks talking for another hour.  He walked me to my car and he kissed me good night.   It was a nice kiss.

So now I am feeling guilty that I didn’t tell December # 2 that I had a date the night before but I am also thinking maybe is was stupid to tell December # 1 about the other date.   CRAP!!!!

Any thoughts?

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