About Me

Hello, my name is Jaymie. I am not one of those sappy women whose life goals and ambitions revolve around meeting Mr. Right, getting married, and making babies. But to be honest I have never been particularly good at relationships. The younger version of myself had hoped that I could get it right by now. But, I DIDNT!!!

I remain hopeful and would still like to meet a great guy that thinks the world of me and that I adore. I would still like to find my happily ever after.


I have decided to continue of the roller coaster of dating. I will go on at least one new date a month in an attempt to meet the right guy. If I don’t there will be consequences.

This challenge started in the month of August and will continue until one of two things happens a) I actually meet the right guy b) a string of terrible monthly dates makes me reconsider my stance on relationships and the idea of being the crazy cat lady becomes more appealing. Both possibilities will ensure endless humor.


Thank you for joining me on my adventure.

Thursday, December 6, 2012

A Response


So I did end up hearing back from November.  Five days after I sent the message.  In truth, I think he wrote me back as soon as he got the message.  Another wonderful feature of OKCupid is that you can be a crazy stalker and see when the person was last online.  I did get nosy a few times and look.

Just to refresh your memory….. I decided to send November an email requesting feedback. Our date had gone well.  I wasn’t that into him.  But when it became evident that he wasn’t into me I wanted to know why.  I wanted some feedback. 

His message apologized for the late reply. The message basically said he isn’t sure he wants to be in a relationship right now. He did say that he would hang out with me again but then said,not sure if I want to date, and not just you, just anyone right now” 
My first thought was, why are you on a dating site if you are not sure you want to date?  Then I started to think that he might just be looking or hoping to find some casual sex.  So I went back to his profile and looked at his answer to the question about what I’m looking for. This is what he put.
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual ses

Notice the large age span and the fact that casual sex is clearly there. So that kind of leads me to conclude that he isn’t picky with the pussy.  He will accept any casual sex he can get and is quite fond of varietal vag.  Elizabeth my genius friend helped me come up with the second alliteration. 

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