So I found
out recently that my grandma reads my blog. When she told me this I couldn’t help but smile. A big cheesy smile. I love knowing that people read and
enjoy what I put out into the Internet world. So feel free to share this blog with anyone/everyone…..even
your grandma. Maybe some of their
words of wisdom will help me on my dating journey.
As far as
my dating/love life goes. I get to
count May as my June. May and I have been dating for like a month and a half.
To refresh your memory this is they guy that my old teacher set me up
with. I do like this guy. He is a math/science teacher. Very funny and can make me laugh. Younger but I don’t notice it
really. I feel comfortable around
him for the most part.
We have
gone out for….
-2 lunch
dates
-at least 3
dinners
-a
prom (I clean up nice. He even bought me a corsage but within
a minute of putting it down a students sat on it)
-an early
morning brunch
-and a
movie
Now I bet
many of you are thinking…..Have you had sex? And I want to remind you that my grandmother reads this
blog. However, since up to now I
have posted with blunt honesty. I will tell you that NO, we have not had sex. Not even close.
I went out
with some wonderful friends last night.
They quickly asked the sex question and were shocked when I said
no. They suggested that I take
some initiate, get him drunk (to lover inhibitions), and basically jump
him.
I do not
want to do that. I do not want to
be the aggressor. I do not want to
play that role. Great, Now I sound
like Dr. Seuss.
I do REALLY
enjoy his company BUT I am not sure it is going to go anywhere.
A few days
ago we went out for lunch. We were
having fun. He was making me
laugh. There was this lunchtime
trivia thing on one of the TVs at the bar/restaurant we were at. We were answering those and just having
a nice easy lunch. There was a
baseball game on one of the other tvs. May/June doesn’t like baseball. I told him that my brother is coming to town in a few weeks
with his wife and two step kids. I
adore my little niece and nephew.
I said that I was going to take them to a dodger game. I asked if he wanted to go. Without a second hesitation, he firmly
said, “No.”
Just F your
I, I don’t take people I am dating to meet my family. I keep the things pretty separate. I don’t think there is a point in introducing a guy your
dating to your family unless it is more serious. So inviting him to meet my brother was kind of a big
deal to me.
After
May/June said, “No” I didn’t have anything to say. I didn’t have a witty response. So it got uncomfortably quiet for a little bit, I don’t even
know how long. I don’t remember
what he said to break the silence.
On a
different note, last night I go a text from DO NOT ANSWER. I might have recognized the terrible
text spelling. He said, Hey wats
up? Ahhhh.
Building a relationship involves making the occasional sacrifice. I don't see what's so difficult about spending an afternoon in the sun letting a Dodgers game waft over you - after all, nothing much happens there! A definite misjudgment on his part, I reckon.
ReplyDeleteplus, who really watches the game anyhow???? It's a people watching event, not actually sports :) So, if I recall, this boy/man reads your blog. what's the outcome of this post? We need a new post to detail that.
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