About Me

Hello, my name is Jaymie. I am not one of those sappy women whose life goals and ambitions revolve around meeting Mr. Right, getting married, and making babies. But to be honest I have never been particularly good at relationships. The younger version of myself had hoped that I could get it right by now. But, I DIDNT!!!

I remain hopeful and would still like to meet a great guy that thinks the world of me and that I adore. I would still like to find my happily ever after.


I have decided to continue of the roller coaster of dating. I will go on at least one new date a month in an attempt to meet the right guy. If I don’t there will be consequences.

This challenge started in the month of August and will continue until one of two things happens a) I actually meet the right guy b) a string of terrible monthly dates makes me reconsider my stance on relationships and the idea of being the crazy cat lady becomes more appealing. Both possibilities will ensure endless humor.


Thank you for joining me on my adventure.

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

I need a ruling....Speed Dating....Date or Not???


I need a ruling........ Would a speed dating event count as a Date of the Month?

I am slightly obsessed with Groupon and recently saw a deal for a speed dating event in LA.  So I started to wonder if that could count as a date of the month.

Speed would would be like 8 to 10 mini dates.  Does that add up to the date of the month?

A friend of mine recently told me that she wanted me to fail at least one month in the date of the month challenge.   It isn’t out of spite or anything and she said it in a loving way.  She just wants to read about my possible humiliation and cringe with me as I make my way through the penalties. I am a pretty outgoing person but the consequence for missing a month go WAY out of my comfort zone.   


For those of you that are not familiar with the consequences I will refresh your memory.  

If I fail to go out with someone in a calendar month I am subject to the penalties, which include:
 A bit of social shame from my supportive friends who are also participating in the Date of the Month.
When out on a group event, my friends get to pick a man (the target) which I must approach and talk to as well as fulfill the second challenge of asking him out. 
      -If the target says “Yes”, I must go on the date.
3)  In the event of the target saying “No”, my friends get to select a secondary target that I must approach, talk to, and ask out. 
   -If the secondary target says “Yes”, I must go on the date.
4)  If the secondary target says “No”, the punishment is over.
     I really hope my friends buy me a pity drink. 

Yep, that is way out of my comfort zone.  In the event that I fail to find a date of the month I am sure my friends would survey the surroundings and choose an acceptable target.  I know they are not going to pick someone who looks like an ass or is obviously unapproachable.  At least I hope they don’t.  But maybe they would just to watch me cringe even more.  I will have to remember to not piss them off the week before.  I also have the idea of winning pretty deeply engrained in my head.  I do not like to fail. 

So would a speed dating event count for the month so I don’t have to face the other consequences?  The other problem is that the speed-dating event might end up being worse.   Eeks!!! 

2 comments:

  1. No, speed dating does not count as your date of the month. It's just a good way to get a date of the month because you are looking at so many potential dates. But you don't actually have a real date with someone on a speed date. You actually have to pick one out and go on a date with him for it to count for the month. :-P

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    1. but.....but....it is like 10 mini dates. Doesn't 10 mini dates equal one date?

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