August and I communicate mostly via text. Its a quick and easy way to communicate. He is pretty good about sending nice texts to say hello and wishing me a wonderful day. We also periodically talk on the phone. I am not complaining but he has upped the frequency lately. This week we talked on the phone three times. And not short little conversations. Each time was a half and hour or longer. Oh and just cuz i am sure your wondering who initiated the calls. He did.
We talk about a variety of subjects. Most of the conversation flows evenly. Thankfully, only one or two awkward silences have occurred. I an not sure why. I cant put my finger on why. We are both interesting people and I am a great conversationalist.
August and I talked about all the normal get to know you subjects like
family, friends, college, work, etc. He also told me about this really
random tattoo that he has. But, it is an odd tattoo and I couldn't
tell if he was being serious or not. I can't label it right now but might find out for sure if it is real or not. This one could make a girl giggle if she wasn't forewarned about it.
Anyways, in a different conversation August did bring up our lunch date compliment me on my hugging skills. He has such original compliments. And so G-rated.
August asked me if I had gone on any other dates. I didn't want to lie so I told him about September. I included some detail and the fact that I was not interested in seeing him again. Since the subject was already brought up I decided to ask the same question. The answer is No. Part of me feels a little guilty for going out with other guys because I am interested in August and want to see where this goes with him. I am going to continue ignoring that part of me.
August did ask me out again. But he suggested lunch. BOOO on that idea. I understand why he suggested lunch. He is really busy with work and studying for the LSAT. But, seriously, COME ON!! What is that expression "All work and no play makes (insert name here) a dull boy" Its true. So I suggested something on a weekend but not this weekend because I am busy.
So while August and I were talking the other night, he complimented me on my voice.
Which is a really sweet compliment. Much nicer than, "I like your
tits". And yes I have gotten that compliment... a few times. Silly men
you must deep down know that a compliment like that isn't going to end
in the way you envision.
After we hung up my mind wanders and I begin wondering how he will kiss. The next day I text him and admit this. He responds by asking me if I was horny. LOL. Before I can even think of a funny and witty response that does not actually answer his question he sends another text. This one says, Don't answer that I was just playing. Well at least he isn't totally G-rated.
About Me
Hello, my name is Jaymie. I am not one of those sappy women whose life goals and ambitions revolve around meeting Mr. Right, getting married, and making babies. But to be honest I have never been particularly good at relationships. The younger version of myself had hoped that I could get it right by now. But, I DIDNT!!!
I remain hopeful and would still like to meet a great guy that thinks the world of me and that I adore. I would still like to find my happily ever after.
I have decided to continue of the roller coaster of dating. I will go on at least one new date a month in an attempt to meet the right guy. If I don’t there will be consequences.
This challenge started in the month of August and will continue until one of two things happens a) I actually meet the right guy b) a string of terrible monthly dates makes me reconsider my stance on relationships and the idea of being the crazy cat lady becomes more appealing. Both possibilities will ensure endless humor.
Thank you for joining me on my adventure.
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