About Me

 Hello, my name is Jaymie. I am not one of those sappy women whose life goals and ambitions revolve around meeting Mr. Right, getting married, and making babies. But to be honest I have never been particularly good at relationships. The younger version of myself had hoped that I could get it right by now. But, I DIDNT!!!

I remain hopeful and would still like to meet a great guy that thinks the world of me and that I adore. I would still like to find my happily ever after.


I have decided to continue of the roller coaster of dating. I will go on at least one new date a month in an attempt to meet the right guy. If I don’t there will be consequences.

This challenge started in the month of August and will continue until one of two things happens a) I actually meet the right guy b) a string of terrible monthly dates makes me reconsider my stance on relationships and the idea of being the crazy cat lady becomes more appealing. Both possibilities will ensure endless humor.


Thank you for joining me on my adventure.

Thursday, November 15, 2012

Moment of Clarity

I, like many other people, do not always take my own advice.  I am still Facebook friends with the last guy I dated.  Yeah, I know!!  I can hear my voice telling other people to delete their exes but I just didnt click the button to hit delete.   I don't snoop or anything.....OK Fine.  I do once in a while.

The other day I saw his posting on my news feed.  He was posting something about being with some girl.  He had some cheesy rhyme for her name.  And yes I clicked on her profile.  She is this cute black chick.  So I am stuck between being a little sad that he is posting about being with this chick and a little peeved by the rhyme.  

I also read the comments and noticed with shock and dismay that she refereed to him as "daddy" in her comment.   I could now hear the whinny voice of the black actress from the movie Couples Retreat.  You know the one, with Vince Vaughn.  The black guy is recently divorced and brings his annoyingly whinny girl friend with him and she calls him, "Daddy".  

EWWWW!!!! I could feel my gag reflex and stomach churn.  I don't mean to offend anyone reading that might have referred to their man as "daddy" but I strongly dislike that.  I also at the moment had the best moment of clarity.   The moment where you know you are 100% over someone.  

I would not be into dating a guy that liked being called, "Daddy" by their girlfriend.  And well, if he is into that kind of woman......it is definitely NOT me. 

See, maybe it is a good thing that I don't listen to my own advice.  

 
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